How to Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …
“I often tend to attract the one who’s emotionally unavailable. What can I do to alter my vibration”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the strongest negative vibration I had from my lengthy history of relationship failures. They were either emotionally unavailable, lived far away or was travelling all the time.
When you keep attracting unavailable lovers, my question to you is, “Is something in you that has a fear of commitment, or finds it difficult to be truly open in a love relationship”? That may be difficult to accept at the moment, but that is what I have found to be the case in most cases.
As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also suggest that you get very clear about what you desire. Get clear by making a list of the qualities you want in your ideal match.
You create the list for yourself so you can attain clear about what it is you really want. You will begin to realize where any weaknesses are in yourself as you make the list. You will see where you should go to work on your level of expectation or belief in the likelihood of receiving what you’re asking for.
To evoke the state of feeling happy expectancy, continue by asking yourself the question “Why do I want this”? It is time to use your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the fun things you’ll do together. Think of grinning, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Think of what it will be like to be with someone who is romantic and loves to bring you a bouquet.
You create the list for you, and the Universe recognizes your clear vibration – the pure intention and unresisted desire!
Many of us have been told from childhood to accept what you get, it’s not kosher to ask for anything, why can’t you just be happy with what you have? – kind of like programming. I suggest you ask for it all and keep feeling yourself into the alignment of your affirmations.
How to Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men
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