Choose Love or Choose Being Alone, Either Way You Get to Choose
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist , writes… …
Relationship Coaching for people with self-confidence or self-esteem problems is extremely helpful in answering this following question. Women tend to be plagued the most from trust, sense of abandonment and worthiness problems. Coaching Life for Women is one solution to solve this problem in life coaching. Anita asks: “Are some of us just meant to be alone”? Anita, since you responded to our survey concerning relationships and the Law of Attraction, I’m assuming you’ve considering creating a relationship for you. Many people choose to keep away from intimate relationships. And that isn’t always the case for someone who’s stopped because they’ve continuously been unsuccessful. Not a thing is wrong with preferring to be without a serious relationship. Life can be fulfilled and wonderful with any choice you end up with.
As long as you know you’re deciding that instead of throwing up your hands out of frustration that you have not met the relationship of a lifetime. You can have it all in a relationship and in life.
If you could view yourself from the point of view of Source or your Inner Being, or the Universe, you would be viewing a beautiful, fantastic, brilliant, connected person. Then life begins to occur around us. Our oblivious parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to teach us, tell us from the beginning what to look out for, warn us, caution us, and try to shelter us, effectively having us adhere to their fears and insecurities rather than listening to our own guidance systems. OK, I will give you as brand new children we do require protection. Fine. But soon after they learn to function by themselves, self-actualization should be part of the training for the small ones.
Well-intentioned parents want to do the correct thing so they teach, hold back, admonish, and instil fear in young ones to make them behave. This only underscores a level of insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets engraved as a child.
Brain research now explains to us that before we are 7, we are so open and receptive, we have no filtering abilities at all. We walk around in a kind of hypnagogic trance and become impressed with whatever comes into our life experience. It’s not a question we have deeply ingrained, although misguided, beliefs about a flawed nature. By the time we are 6 years old, we’ve listened to the word “NO” about 60,000 times. Watch out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, don’t drop that. The recurring message is you’re unworthy, you can’t trust you, you do not know what you’re doing, and so on.
Our parents and elders were indeed well-meaning. They simply wanted our well-being. But you can see how easily we have been taught away from our inherent beauty and brilliance.
I suggest that you go easy with yourself and give yourself a break. Firstly, it is not your fault. It’s not even the fault of your parents. They were taught the same way too. You can stop the prevalence of lower sense of self-worth on yourself and everyone you know. You deserve to have everything your heart desires.
Do your very best to give yourself love and self-acceptance. Adhere to yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The truth is, the Universe appreciates, Spirit adores you, and your Inner Being loves you. Why? Because you ARE adorable. And that IS the truth!
Choose Love or Choose Being Alone, Either Way You Get to Choose
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Choose Me $7.99 Always on the outside looking in, Alex is the kid everyone picks on. She isn’t as pretty or as thin as the other girls, and they make sure that she knows that they don’t want to play with her. She depends on the love of her father, her brother, and God in order to get by. To get through those tough times, she tries to look at the bright side and to focus on the times that make her happy. Her father, too, gives her advice: God will choose a path for you. She has always known that God would help her to find the right person to spend her life with, and she already knows who it will be: Steven handsome, popular Steven. Alex longs to be loved by Steven; it has been her dream since grade school, when she first met him. Steven has the most beautiful smile Alex had ever seen. She has a kind heart and soul and wants to be accepted for who she was by others, even when they laugh at her. She grows up, living her life through good times and bad, but ultimately only finding happiness when she finally takes her father’s advice to heart and counts on God to guide her through. |
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Terry Pratchett: Choosing To Die (2011) – Full
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